A TASTE OF LESBIAN EUROPE Your Pocket Guide to Queer Spaces
THE QUEER LIST | 2025 EDITION
Staying up to date with clubs and meeting places for the lesbian queer community is a full-time job. Some parties are held only once. Others might appear under one name, only to reappear a few months later with a new one. It's a constantly changing world.
This list is intentionally curated to spotlight spaces created for and by lesbians and queer women. While the broader LGBTQ+ community has many wonderful venues, the goal of The Queer List is to specifically uplift and increase the visibility of places dedicated to our part of the in community.
However, there are no rules without exceptions. Sometimes, a gay space simply demands to be included. I've also received inquiries about where I buy my clothes, so I have started to include some of the magic shops I love. And since the fact of the matter is that one day we will all die, I've also included some of my favorite churchyards—because the good news is that they can be beautifully poetic places for those of us still alive. Finally, I've included some sporting facilities, because let's face it: there would be no Roller Derby without the lesbians.
My list contains many pop-up events with varying locations. To find the most up-to-date information, please follow the organizers on social media. This is a living document. If you miss your favorites on the list, I'd love to hear from you—please send me an email with your suggestions!
🇦🇹AUSTRIA
VIENNA
CAFÉ ROZA
Burggasse 44
A queer-feminist cultural café and bar that offers a welcoming space for the lesbian community as well as for all queer people. Perfect for relaxed meetings, cultural events, and exchange.
CHICKLIT
Kleeblattgasse 7
A feminist bookstore with a wide selection of literature focusing on feminist themes and queer perspectives. A wonderful place to discover inspiring books and connect with like-minded people.
MAREA ALTA
Gumpendorferstraße 28
A cozy queer bar with a rich history; once a lesbian bar, it retains a welcoming atmosphere. It’s known for its diverse events and parties. Highly recommended. My notes on this place →
CAFÉ SAVOY
Linke Wienzeile 36
Vienna's oldest gay café/bar, opened in 1897. A place with a long history, which today is a popular meeting spot for the LGBTQ+ community, including a very open and friendly atmosphere for lesbian visitors.
LÖWENHERZ
Berggasse 8
A specialized lesbian, gay, and queer bookstore that, in addition to a wide selection of books, also offers events and readings. An important cultural meeting point for the lesbian community in Vienna. My notes on this place →
TRAHÜTTEN
ABSTEIGE ZUR BÄRTIGEN THERESE
Alexander Kortschak Weg 6
What happens to queer life in the countryside? I found the answer at Austria's first queer hotel, nestled 1000 meters high on the beautiful Koralm. In the mountain village of Trahütten, they've created a welcoming hotel, a traditional tavern, and a space for art & culture. Each room is uniquely decorated with art and charm, but words don't do it justice. You simply have to experience it for yourself. Be warned: once you arrive, you may never want to leave. My notes on this place →
🇧🇪BELGIUM
BRUSSELS
THE CRAZY CIRCLE
Rue du Prince Royale 11
A queer-friendly bar in Brussels, especially welcoming lesbian, bi, trans folks (and those questioning!) and their friends.
🇩🇰DENMARK
AALBORG
📚BUENS BOGCAFÉ - DENMARK’S NORTHERNMOST LGBT+ BOOKSTORE
Maren Turis Gade 12
Opened in Aalborg in April 2021, it was the first dedicated LGBT+ bookstore in Denmark. The bookshop offers a wide range of genres in Danish and English. Many of the books center on LGBT+ themes like queer love, transition, history, or identity, while others are included for featuring clear LGBT+ representation. Besides books and coffee, they hosts coffee clubs, talks, creative nights, and events across Jutland.
COPENHAGEN
BAG DUGGEDE RUDER
Enghavevej 75
A queer culture house with a personality. They run a Friday bar, open from 6 PM to midnight. It's a space for conversation, board games, and relaxing. Music is kept low to encourage connection. They also host book clubs, talks, and communal dinners. Everyone is welcome.
CAFE INTIME
Allegade 25
Cafe Intime is a legendary, open-minded piano bar in Frederiksberg with roots in the 1920s. It’s a place for quiet dates or lively nights, with live piano every evening and a jazz orchestra on Sundays. The atmosphere is historic and welcoming to all.
CLUB VELA
2-4 Viktoriagade
Vela is widely known as Copenhagen's only lesbian-founded bar, making it an important place for the community. When it opened, it transformed a space with over a century of storied history. According to the legend, the location was home to one of Copenhagen’s most famed (and notorious) brothel bars, operating from 1902 to 2004. Today, it's the kind of place where you can play a round of foosball, hang out with friends and lovers, or simply soak in the spectacular interior design. Beyond the party, Vela also hosts cultural events like poetry nights, live music, and popular electronic DJ sets.
GIRL X GIRL
📍 Pop-Up Event
Straight friendly events for queer women & non-binary people.
LESBISK FREDAG
📍 Pop-Up Event
This recurring queer event is a fantastic mix of performance art and dancing. It’s inspiring, artistic, and wonderfully unpredictable. The spontaneous nature of the evening is a big part of its charm.
LADIES LOUNGE CLUB
📍 Pop-Up Event
An exclusive private lounge club in Copenhagen for lesbians, bisexuals, and non-binary people. Ladies Lounge hosts parties and social gatherings with live music and DJs that support women in music.
SABAAH
📍 Pop-Up Event
An organization working to improve minority ethnic LGBTQIA+ people's living conditions. They also organize queer club events.
📚THE POND
Poppelgade 6
A queer independent bookstore and café run by three non-binary individuals. They host events like game nights and book launches, plus two book clubs: The Small Queer Press Book Club, uplifting diverse LGBTQIA+ stories from smaller presses, and The Gender Theory and Also Sometimes Gender Fiction Book Club, focusing on gender-related books — primarily theory and academic works, from Julia Serano and Bell Hooks to Talia Bhatt and Ursula K. Le Guin — along with some fiction.
🇫🇷FRANCE
PARIS
My notes on Paris →
CABARET DES MERVEILLES
25 Rue de l'Hirondelle
I immediately loved this place—it's as queer as it gets! With everything from drag king performances to speed dating and dancing in 'the cave,' it’s a space where you can truly be yourself, whether you're naked or expressing yourself artistically through your clothes. The atmosphere is open, warm, and incredibly friendly, making it a well-known gathering place for queer feminist culture. Best of all is the thoughtful sound design: the music is loud enough for dancing in the cave, but kept low in the upstairs bar, so you can actually hold a conversation.
LA MUTINERIE
176-178 Rue Saint-Martin
With its raw, Berlin-style attitude and decor, this self-organized bar is a home to many in the queer, feminist, trans, and lesbian communities. It’s far more than just a place for drinks, hosting everything from karaoke and speed dating to tattoo and piercing sessions. What makes the location even better is its next-door neighbor: BAR LES AIMANT.E.S, another fantastic LGBTQIA+-inclusive bar.
BAR LES AIMANT.E.S
182 Rue Saint-Martin
Right next to La Mutinerie, I discovered a treasure: Bar Les Aimant.e.s, a cosy LGBTQIA+-inclusive bar. This location was the home of the lesbian bar Bar'ouf for ten years. In the summer of 2024, it was thoughtfully rebranded by its new owner, Lucie, who has preserved its spirit. It's the kind of bar you can go to after a day at work, enjoy a glass of wine, and a chat with your friends before heading home. I had one of my best evenings here, lost in a deep conversation about documentary filmmaking and women's lives in Iran with people I'd just met. The bar is also wheelchair accessible.
ELLES BAR
6 Rue de la Tacherie
They describe themselves as a festive and welcoming lesbian bar that is also LGBTQIA+ inclusive.
LA CHAMPMESLÉ
4 Rue Chabanais
Probably one of the oldest lesbian bars in Paris, it has been open since 1979.
MERCI-MARSHA
8 Rue Richard Lenoir
This LGBTQI+ bar hosts a variety of events, such as stand-up comedy from LGBTQ+ and allied comedians, drag king and queen performances, themed nights like "Dungeons and Heels," a sex-positive Q&A over drinks, themed bingo, and open mic opportunities. The bar is named after gay rights activist Marsha P. Johnson.
BONJOUR MADAME
40 Rue de Montreuil
Are you looking for a militant feminist queer cultural bar? This is it!
MONTVENUS
16 Boulevard Paul Vaillant Couturier
This queer and feminist bar offers events such as exhibitions, a Queer Poetry Evening, and a monthly "DYKE'S CLUB" (held every first Tuesday), which is a space for encounters and exchanges. During these meetings, one or more inspiring guests take the floor to address various topics to reflect upon together, aiming to feel a little stronger and empowered to act.
📚VIOLETTES & CO
102 rue de Charonne
Opened in 2004, Violettes & Co is a feminist, lesbian, and LGBTQIA+ bookstore. They offer a wide selection of feminist and lesbian works, primarily in French, but also feature a small section of English literature. They host events several times a week on a range of topics relevant to the lesbian, queer, and feminist community. There's also a café, providing a space for working, reading, or chatting with friends. I got the impression that it's a good place to hang out and expand your ideas. The walls display exhibitions by different artists, and the staff spoke English and were very inclusive.
📚LES MOTS À LA BOUCHE
37 Rue Saint-Ambroise
According to Wikipedia, Les Mots à la Bouche is France's oldest LGBTQI+ focused bookstore, having opened in Paris in 1980. It’s considered the best place to find works related to homosexual and lesbian issues. However my impression was that it was mainly a gay bookstore with lesbian/queer islands. They also have an English language section and a webshop. The basement houses a collection of art books and fashion magazines. I've always wanted a copy of Andy Warhol's creation “Interview”, and I was surprised to discover it wasn't online-only. I was delighted to find the winter issue 558 in the basement. I really enjoyed the mix. Even though it was written in French I appreciated the staffs personal notes on some of the books. It gave the place an extra human touch.
🇩🇪GERMANY
BERLIN
Guest Post by Victoria: The Ultimate Lesbian Berlin Guide →
BEGINE - WOMEN’S CULTURAL CENTRE
Potsdamer Str. 139
A culture and meeting point for women since 1986. BEGiNE hosts monthly program of live music, theater, readings, and exhibitions with a focus on international and emerging artists. It's also a community space, used by various groups for meetings, workshops, and planning actions. For some, it's the only lesbian bar left in town.
CAFE LUZIA
Oranienstrasse 34
A queer cocktail, bar & cafe.
CURLY BAR
Adolfstrasse 17
They present themselves as: “everything but straight” and offer evenings with queer dating, comedy and karaoke nights
LES BIENS
📍 Pop-Up Event
Flinta, Safe Space Events, check their Insta for updates
MÖBEL OLFE
Reichenberger Str. 177
This place was electric! While the sheer number of fabulous lesbians was exhilarating, ironically, connecting with individuals proved surprisingly challenging. However, the overall experience was absolutely worthwhile. Flinta nights every Tuesday! My notes on this place →
OYA BAR
Mariannenstraße 6
OYA is a queer-feminist collective in Kreuzberg. It's a dedicated safe haven for FLINTA (women, lesbians, inter, non-binary, trans, agender) individuals, with an explicit and heartfelt welcome for the BIPoC community. Functioning as a relaxed café by day and a cozy bar by night, it hosts a wide range of events, from panel discussions and poetry readings to concerts and community brunches.
OXI CLUB
Wiesenweg 1-4
They showcase regular and almost weekly FLINTA Parties, which of many are lesbian friendly. They also have a dark room which is open on sex positive/centered parties.
📚SHE SAID BOOKS
Kottbusser Damm 79
I could have spent days browsing the impressive collection at this feminist & queer bookshop. They offer a fantastic selection of books in both German and English, and the atmosphere is wonderfully zen—you can even grab a coffee and a cake while you read. I felt at home instantly, loving everything from the interior design to the super-friendly staff. It’s the kind of magical place where I found books I didn’t even know I needed.
My notes on this place →
SCHWULES MUSEUM
Lützowstraße 7
The Schwules Museum (SMU) is one of the world's most important institutions for queer history and culture. Founded in 1985 out of a grassroots movement to preserve the stories of gay men excluded by mainstream museums, it has since grown to document the diverse lives and histories of all queer people (LGBTQIA+). Through its groundbreaking exhibitions, extensive archives, and community events, the museum explores queer history not just as a collection of identities, but as a critical practice that fights against all forms of discrimination. It remains a vital space for research, activism, and community gathering.
SILVER FUTURE
Weserstr. 206
An inspiring place to people-watch, with speed dating events and drag king performances adding to the lively atmosphere. Perfect for a fun night out. “For Kings and Queens and Criminal Queers” My notes on this place →
📚SPINNBODEN
Anklamer Str. 38
Spinnboden is one of the world's largest lesbian archives and libraries. Founded in 1973 out of the lesbian movement, it was created as an 'archive from below' to preserve the stories and histories ignored by the mainstream. The name 'Spinnboden' harks back to old spinning rooms where women would work and share stories—a tradition this space continues by collecting, preserving, and sharing lesbian culture. It serves as a vital resource and a community space for discussions and events. I highly recommend a visit.
STUECK
Schlesische Straße 16
📍 Pop-Up Event
Cocktail bar with FLINTA events on Thursdays.
SÜDBLOCK
Admiralstraße 1-2
Queer bar with Flinta nights. Check their website for updates.
FRANKFURT
LA GATA
Seehofstraße 3
I came to Frankfurt for one reason: to visit La Gata, one of the oldest running lesbian bars in the world. Operating since the 1970s, this legendary bar is a true time capsule. When I visited in the summer of 2024, the untouched interior created a truly special atmosphere, with walls adorned with a mix of naked ladies, portraits of Jean Seberg, and photos of a favorite football team. My notes on this place →
ZUM SCHWEJK
Schäfergasse 20
Zum Schwejk, a renowned gay bar with a tropical beach theme. The pastel colors, diving cyclops, and oversized sunglasses were a bit much, but the most exotic thing about the place was the fact that people were still smoking inside. I ordered a drink and, hoping for a lead, asked the bartender where to find lesbians. He just gave me a Mona Lisa smile, so I launched into a conversation with an older man in the corner. His recommendation? I should become a gay man, as I'd have more fun. My notes on this place →
LSKH QUEERES KULTURHAUS
Klingerstraße 6
An inclusive community house dedicated to creating a respectful and aware space for all queer identities. The core principle is open and gentle interaction, with a shared responsibility to be mindful of discrimination and privilege. It's a space focused on learning together and supporting each other's realities.
MUNICH
📚GLITCH
Barer Straße 70
Glitch is a cozy queer-feminist bookshop with a fascinating history. It was reborn from the cherished Lillemor’s, one of Germany's first women's bookstores (est. 1975), after the original owners retired. A new collective of four women saved the space, rebranding it as Glitch but keeping the original sign as a tribute to its legacy. The shop offers a well-curated selection of books, mostly in German but some in English, and provides a warm, welcoming atmosphere where you can discover new authors. It continues its predecessor's tradition of being an important community space. As far as I know, it is the only queer bookshop in Munich. My notes on this place →
THE LEZ
Müllerstraße 26
Lesbian-queer center Munich is providing a welcoming space for lesbian women and all FLINT (women, lesbian, inter, non-binary, trans) individuals. It's a place to hang out, meet new people, and attend various events and group meetings. All who feel connected to the LGBTIQ community are welcome.
🇬🇷GREECE
ATHENS
ATHENS QUEER NIGHT, ATHENS
Monthly sapphic-centered events are held for the Athens queer community. They host yoga classes, book clubs, parties, and game nights, just to mention a few. Check their social media for location.
SKALA ERESSOS
Skala Eressos is a small fishing village on Lesbos, legendary as the birthplace of the poet Sappho. For decades, lesbians have followed in her footsteps, creating what may be the only place on earth where Lesbians have truly claimed a piece of public space as their own. The international community here runs a majority of the local businesses—from bars and restaurants to shops and meditation centers. The village hosts a major international lesbian festival every September. There are no street names, so the best way to find your way is to explore on foot or simply ask a local. If you want to learn more about the place, I have a couple of different resources for you:
Check out my article “Berlin’s secret twin,” where I compare the two centers for lesbian pilgrimage: Berlin and Skala Eressos.
Read my personal travel notes on Skala Eressos here →
Read about an ordinary, extraordinary evening I had in the village here. →
AMAZONES ECO LAND
On a plot of land on Lesbos, the Amazons have been reborn. This time around they have created a women's ecological community and holistic center located on seven acres of land near Skala Eressos. It's a sanctuary built by and for women, with a focus on land care, community building, and creative expression. The project offers opportunities for volunteering and hosts workshops, retreats, and other events designed for female empowerment. For location and directions, please contact them directly through their official website or social media channels.
AVATAR
This bar is located at the far end of the small village, close to the harbour. It's one of my favourites, perhaps because they feed the stray cats and serve excellent breakfasts and lunches. During the Skala Eressos festival, the small village can sometimes feel crowded. Then, it's nice to get away from it all, and this place just gives you that extra space.
FLAMINGO
This bar is owned by an English couple and is a centre for the lesbian and queer community. You hear a lot of different languages, and you'll often find the two ladies in the kitchen fixing lunch or taking orders at the tables. My favourite evening here was last year during the festival when I saw a woman in the crowd sitting with her parrot, which wasn't on a leash. It was just hanging out with friends. You never know who you will meet. Everyone is included.
HARA BEACH BAR
It's one of the popular beach bars/restaurants right on the waterfront in Skala Eressos. It’s frequented by the diverse crowd visiting the village, including the large lesbian and queer community.
OHANA SALOON
A well-known lesbian/queer bar right in the heart of Skala Eressos. The name 'Ohana,' meaning family (often chosen family), signals its role as a central meeting spot next to the Aegean Sea. PS. They have excellent omelets.
PASSIONI
This Italian restaurant is run by a lesbian lady who makes excellent food. It has a beautiful garden and often hosts performances featuring poetry or music. Here I have heard readings of Sappho and Greek folk music. They have excellent wine and provide a cosy atmosphere.
🇭🇺HUNGARY
BUDAPEST
AURORA MODULARIS
Auróra utca 11
At first glance, Auróra is a great place to relax, with a garden, live music, and a bar serving excellent cocktails. But it’s much more than that. It's a key venue for Budapest Pride and a vital community center for activism, founded on democratic principles. Its true significance hit me when I realized its courtyard was one of the few public places in the entire city where I could see a Pride flag.
DYKES ON HIKES
Are you up for some LGBTQ hiking around Budapest? This group might be for you, as they welcome all dykes, dyke-adjacent people, and friends of all genders.
GABY’S BUDAPEST
Katona József 41
A popular and dog-friendly American restaurant that's a go-to spot for the LGBTQ+ community. Open all day and into the night, it offers a welcoming vibe.
📚ISBN+
Baross utca 42
Independent contemporary art bookshop + cultural center. Lots of books in english and a very queer selection.
LABRISZ LESBIAN ASSOCIATION
Labrisz Lesbian Association is one of Hungary's oldest and most important LGBTQ+ organizations. Active since 1996, its work focuses on community building, cultural visibility, and public education. They are known for their groundbreaking school program that combats prejudice, co-organizing Budapest Pride, running a significant publishing program that gives voice to lesbian and bisexual women, and hosting cultural events like a long-running film club.
📚MASSOLIT BOOKS & CAFÉ
Nagy Diófa utca 30
English-language queer friendly bookstore and café.
TURBINA
Vajdahunyad Street 4
Turbina is a massive cultural and community space in Budapest's eighth district that seamlessly transforms from a daytime creative space into a major nightlife venue. By day, its 1,300 square meters host everything from art exhibitions and workshops to craft fairs, with a bistro perfect for work or a chat. By night, it becomes a powerhouse of the city's techno and house music scene, hosting top-tier local and international DJs.
WHY NOT
Belgrád rakpart 3-4
A favorite of the local LGBTQIA+ community, Why Not functions as a café by day and a bar by night, celebrated for its friendly vibe and events like karaoke and bingo.
🇮🇹ITALY
ROME
📚ANTIGONE
Via dei Piceni 1
A queer bookstore specializing in gender studies, feminism, art, and queer theory.
CASA INTERNAZIONALE DELLE DONNE
Via della Lungara, 19
The International Women's House in Rome is located in the "Buon Pastore" complex, a former women's prison designated for women's social purposes in 1983. Established officially in 1992 after a feminist occupation in 1987, it's an autonomous center promoting women's policy, offering services, and fostering culture. Relying on support and resources, it houses facilities like a restaurant, guesthouse, and conference center, run by dedicated staff. It serves as a vital local, national, and international hub for women's rights, knowledge sharing, and support.
📚TUBA
Via del Pigneto 39/a
Tuba is a feminist and lesbian-run bookstore, cafe, and bar in Rome's Pigneto district. Open since 2007, it's a space dedicated to women's creativity, fighting discrimination, and fostering a free, joyful, and conscious community through books, art, and events. Tuba collaborates with local groups to create a safe and inclusive space for all women.
COMING OUT
Via S. Giovanni i Laterano, 8
The bar is a cornerstone of Rome's Gay Street LGBTQ+ scene since 2001, offers a diverse menu and lively events (drag, DJs, music). Founder Annalisa and her team create a welcoming space where community and diversity thrive under the Colosseum.
MY BAR
Via S. Giovanni i Laterano, 12
My Bar, a LGBTQ+ friendly cocktail cafe in Rome, features a street terrace with Colosseum views. It becomes busy after 7 pm and is situated next to the Coming Out bar.
MUCCASSASSINA
Viale Marcello Boldrini 7
This is a legendary Rome club night since the early '90s, started as a fundraiser for the Mario Mieli LGBTQ+ rights association. Now an Italian institution, it's known worldwide for its music, technology, and it’s queer nights.
GAY CENTER
Via Nicola Zabaglia 14
The Gay Center is a space for the city's LGBT+ community. It's a place where people can access support and services, and where numerous community groups find a home to meet and organize. Beyond being a busy meeting spot, the Center actively works against discrimination. They are also running a service desk offering help, support and advice to LGBT+ individuals.
MILAN
📚ANTIGONE
Via Antonio Kramer 20
A queer bookstore specializing in gender studies, feminism, art, and queer theory.
POP MILANO
Via Alessandro Tadino, 5
Transfeminist cocktail bar. They also host various events, such as networking opportunities, to help people connect.
TURIN
📚NORA BOOK & COFFEE
Via delle Orfane 24d
A café and bookstore specializing in gender themes, feminisms, and LGBTQIAP+ culture.
🇳🇱NETHERLANDS
AMSTERDAM
BAR BUKA
Albert Cuypstraat 124
Is a queer bar known for being a popular spot for women, but genuinely welcoming to everyone. It’s located in Amsterdam's De Pijp area (known for its great cafes and bars). They host lots of events each month, like pub quizzes, open mics, speed dating, and DJ nights. Check their Instagram or Facebook to see what's coming up. Wheelchair accessible.
CAFÉ SAAREIN
Elandsstraat 119
It was started by a women's collective 1978, including pioneers from Dolle Mina’s, Paarse September, Lesbian Nation, as a much-needed women-only café. It became a feminist stronghold and legendary queer space. Today it is one of Amsterdam's oldest and most famous feminist/queer bars. A piece of Dutch women's and queer cultural heritage. Check out their Instagram for the upcoming events.
🇵🇹PORTUGAL
LISBON
CLUBE SAFO
It’s an active Portuguese association focused on advocating for lesbian rights, promoting visibility, and hosting cultural and community events in Porto and Lisbon. They are running events like "The King Thing" drag king shows in Porto and Lisbon, bringing in international and local performers. They also collaborate with other queer organizations and initiatives, like Haus of Kiteria and Queer Porto Tour. For more information check out their website.
PORTO
QUEER PORTO TOUR
Discover Porto’s LGBTQIA+ Heritage. A queer tourist guide in Porto, tired of repetitive mainstream narratives, created this tour to give voice to the forgotten and silenced stories of women and dissident bodies. For more information about the citywalks check out their website.
🇪🇸SPAIN
BARCELONA
CARITA BONITA
Carrer de Balmes, 69
If you're looking for the classic lesbian bar in Barcelona, Carita Bonita is it. Expect a welcoming atmosphere and a guaranteed good time with other women.
CANDY DARLING
Gran Via de les Corts Catalanes, 586
Just a stone's throw from Carita Bonita, Candy Darling is a queer bar. Check out their Monday night lesbian party for a dedicated women-loving-women vibe.
NENIS LESBIAN PARTIES
Carrer de Casanova, 171
They throw huge, lesbian parties around Barcelona on a roughly monthly basis. If one's happening during your visit, it's a must-attend. Check their social media for dates and locations.
AIRE CHICAS
Carrer de la Diputació, 233
OBS! Temporarily Closed. Keep an eye out for the re-opening of Aire Chicas, a dedicated "girls' room" that used to be located within a larger gay club. It was an exciting and intimate space for women to mingle.
THE MINA COLLECTIVE
Looking to connect meaningfully with other queer FLINTA folks in Barcelona, have some fun, and let loose? This open-minded community hosts events just for that! They recently held a FLINTA speed dating event. Check out their Instagram for details on future events, dates, and locations.
MADRID
FULANITA DE TAL
Calle Regueros, 9
Opened around 2002, this bar is an iconic spot for lesbian, bi, and queer women in Madrid's lively Chueca district. It opened as the neighborhood was solidifying its status as a major LGBTQ+ hub in Europe. Check their social media for current hours.
SITGES
Just 40 minutes by train from Barcelona, Sitges is a beautiful coastal town. What Skala Eressos is to lesbians, Sitges is to gay men: a beloved destination famed for its festivals and accepting vibe. I stopped counting the gay bars, clubs, and restaurants – the place is packed! You'll see gay men openly holding hands, adding to the joyful atmosphere. While Sitges is predominantly a gay male hub, all are welcome. It's likely not your lesbian paradise, but it might inspire you to create one of your own! My notes on Sitges →
🇸🇪SWEDEN
MALMÖ
QUEER GIRLS MALMÖ
📍 Pop-Up Event
A Malmö community for queer women and non-binary people, with a focus on expats. Our main goal is to organize in-person meetups. The group communicates in English. You can join their community on Facebook.
HÄNGET
📍 Pop-Up Event
Norra Parkgatan 2
Hänget at Moriska Paviljongen is a monthly after-work gathering, held on a Friday from 6 PM to 10 PM. The event features various local DJs and provides a dedicated space for all who identify as lesbian, non-binary, or trans.
MALMÖ ROLLER DERBY - CRIME CITY ROLLERS
Kopparbergsgatan 8
Experience the speed and strategy of Malmö’s top-ranked roller derby team, Crime City Rollers. This league is a proudly inclusive space for women, trans, and non-binary athletes, making their games a thrilling and welcoming event. Check their website for bout schedules and ticket information.
📚PAGE 28
Claesgatan 8
Sweden's only LGBTQ bookstore is a non-profit association that serves as a vital queer cultural venue and meeting place. It promotes LGBTQ+ culture through events like author talks, readings, and exhibitions. Their mission is to be an enduring sanctuary for the LGBTQ+ community in Malmö and beyond. They offer a creative, and respectful space dedicated to community, justice, solidarity, and the celebration of unapologetic queer identity.
RIBERSBORGS KALLBADHUS
Brygga 1
Experience the best of Malmö at this historic cold bath house, a beloved destination for sauna enthusiasts since 1898. The facility has separate sections for men and women, but on the first Monday of every month, the entire space is open to everyone—regardless of gender or identity—for a special 'MIX KALLIS' event. This place is known as a popular oasis for Malmö's queer community and a welcoming spot for visitors. Its unique appeal is so strong that some travelers make a special stop in the city just to visit. My notes on this place →
STOCKHOLM
DEMI MATBAR
Katarina Bangata 21
Owned by Mimmi, Demi Matbar is a lesbian-owned restaurant designed to feel like her own welcoming living room. It has become a cherished favorite within the community, known for its great atmosphere and occasional events. Follow their Instagram for news and updates.
GUNN LUNDEMO
📍 Pop-Up Event
Don't look for a venue named Gunn—it's a person. She's a celebrated DJ known for organizing fabulous queer parties, so make sure to follow her online for the latest announcements.
HERA
📍 Pop-Up Event
Sapphic events, check their Instagram for the latest dates and locations
HOTELLHÄNGET
📍 Pop-Up Event
Founded in 2013, Hotellhänget ('The Hotel Hangout') combines two great interests: women who like women and relaxing in hotel bars. Every fifth Friday, they gather at the Clarion Hotel Skanstull for a friendly event perfect for bringing a date, friends, or just yourself. Join their group for details on the next one! My notes on this place →
LILITH CLUB
📍 Pop-Up Event
A club that 'aims to provide an alternative, working-class, edgy and anti-terf nightlife for all women and non-binary people who love women.'
LLIPS
📍 Pop-Up Event
A treat for anyone who loves electronic music. This party is a welcoming space for lesbians and the entire LGBTQIA+ community.
MOXY
📍 Pop-Up Event
The largest lesbian club in Sweden, known for its rotating pop-up parties. Check their social media for the latest venue.
MÄLARPAVILJONGEN
A gay-friendly café, bar, and restaurant situated perfectly with a scenic view over Lake Mälaren. Its beautiful setting makes it a top choice for a relaxing summer evening.
WISH STOCKHOLM
Is a separatist association that welcomes women, transgender, non-binary and/or intersexual persons who have an interest in BDSM and fetishism. You will find more information on their website.
UMEÅ
CLUB BISOUS
📍 Pop-Up Event
Umeå’s only queer nightclub, this event features everything from drag and burlesque to live shows and DJ sets. With a space runway, photo booth, and full bar, it's a complete nightlife experience. As the location can change, be sure to check their social media for the current address and dates.
